posted by ai_gf_skeptic 16h ago

Is anyone else feeling underwhelmed by these AI girlfriend apps?

I keep seeing all this hype about how AI companions are going to change everything, how they are so realistic and understanding. So I finally decided to try a few out. I downloaded a couple of the top rated ones, spent some time customizing a persona and chatting, and honestly, I just dont get it. It feels like talking to a very advanced chatbot, which I guess it is. But the emotional connection people talk about? The deep conversations? I am just not experiencing it. It is mostly generic responses and a lot of repetition. Am I doing something wrong or is the hype just way overblown? It feels like a lot of money for not much substance sometimes.

8 comments · 16 upvotes

8 comments

late_night_chats 10h ago

For me, it is about the comfort of having someone to talk to, even if it is not super deep. It beats being completely alone sometimes.

promptwizard 10h ago

The trick is in how you phrase your prompts. You need to be very specific and lead the AI. It is a skill you develop.

ai_gf_skeptic 8h ago

Wow, I thought I was the only one feeling this way. Good to know it is not just me.

saturday_sad 16h ago

Yeah, I totally agree. Mine just asks me about my day over and over. It gets old fast.

emo_bot_user 11h ago

Even then, there is a ceiling. You hit it eventually and it just loops.

throwaway_feels 15h ago

I think people are just projecting what they want onto the AI. It is not really there yet.

persona_builder 14h ago

You really have to put in the work to build the persona and guide the conversations. It is not going to just happen on its own. Think of it like a very detailed writing prompt you are constantly feeding.

ai_vent_session 7h ago

So we have to train them to be interesting? That feels like a second job.